I'm back from the mountains. Just got back Monday afternoon. Stayed longer than I had planned.
Saturday morning, I had arrived at my friend's apartment around 9 a.m., ready to load our cars. She still had things to sort through and pack, but I had both of our cars packed with all of her essential belongings by 2:00, and then we were on the road.
We arrived at our motel room by 7 p.m. I learned what an emotional day it had been for her, leaving her apartment, leaving much behind in storage, and leaving so much more than I can even talk about here.
When a person reaches a point in life that changes have to be made, sometimes there is little we can do to stop it. Sometimes, greater powers are at work in our minds and in our hearts, pushing us to move from the familiar to the unfamiliar, from what holds us back to what frees us, from what deadens us to what gives us life. When this happens, it isn't always joyous. It isn't without pain. I witnessed this first hand as I helped my friend move.
The above photo shows her view of the Great Smoky Mountains from the back deck of her new temporary home. I shot it this morning, as a fog drifted between the mountains. You can see a pleasant and gentle stream running through her backyard as well. This is what she will see every morning first thing.
Sunday morning, after I had unloaded the contents of both cars into her home, we went out for lunch, then she drove me around to show me the sights. She said I didn't come all the way up here just to haul boxes.
One stop included the greatest surprise. I would never have found it without her. Indigo, you will find this especially interesting.
She drove us (she needs crutches to walk, but she can drive well enough) through Cherokee, down the strip on Big Cove Road (Hwy 441 N). It's a veritable tourist trap there, both sides of the street are lined with stores selling souvenirs and 'crafts'. You can spend a lot of money on junk if you are not careful, but there are some genuine shops that sell authentic Cherokee handmade objects, if you know where to find them. She knows where they are.
She pulled into one shopping center in Saunooke Village, which looked like all the other shopping centers along the road. She told me we were going to a museum. We walked past several souvenir joints, and came to the Cherokee Heritage Museum and Gallery.
If you are ever in Cherokee, and you want to see authentic Cherokee/Native American art, or you want to talk to someone who can give you historical information about Native American art, this is the museum you must not pass up. Walking into this little shop is like an illusion. It looks like a gift shop on the outside, but upstairs are the treasures of ancient history.
Like I said, downstairs it looks like a book store/crafts shop, but if you want something more substantial and want to learn about the culture and history of the Cherokee Nation, talk to Dr. Michael Abram. (look closely, he's in the photograph) He has created a guided tour from thousands of Cherokee objects: stone sculpture, paintings, masks, clothing items, weapons, and other artifacts he has collected/purchased over the years. For $5 he will lead you up the stairs, give you a personal introduction about how the guided tour works, and then send you on your way. A taped history, narrated by the good doctor himself, leads you through each display. The entire tour takes about one hour. There are chairs to sit on if you get tired of standing.
I came away with the distinct feeling that this place is overlooked and under-rated. After the tour, I expressed to him my appreciation for the years of research and collecting he had to have done to gather such a collection. He is living proof how one man can make a difference in the world, a little piece at a time.
He is easy to talk to. As museum curators, he and his wife also give lectures. Truly a fascinating person to talk with, but mostly you will want to listen to him. He told me to come back sometime and he'd show me some things that aren't even on display... he has much more stored away because he lacks the space in the building. Can you imagine? A museum holding such valuable and important historical articles such as these, and there isn't enough space to put them all on display.
Another stop we made was just a few miles from her home. Kituhwa Mound. When you drive by, you will think you are passing an ordinary farm field with an extraordinary view and corn planted in patches around it.
(My friend is learning the Cherokee language, and knows the sounds of the letters. They look like English letters, but the letters don't make the same sounds as our letters. Kituhwa is pronounced Guh-doo-ah, with accent on the 2nd syllable, doo, she told me.)
If you stop by for a closer look, however, you will notice a rise in the center of the fenced in area, about five feet high, barely a small hill. This mound marks a holy Cherokee site, Kituhwa, which once was the foundation of a building that held the sacred flame from which all other ceremonial flames were carried. It burned continuously, a symbol of the Cherokee life. "It is said to be the place where God came to give laws to humans," and where the Cherokee people began.*
I felt a sense of reverence as we walked along a dirt path that paralleled the mound. My friend reminded me that we were walking on the dust of the Cherokee ancestors. I thought about picking up a rock and taking it with me, but decided not to. I did not want to disrespect this place.
Check the link I provided if you would like to read more about Kituhwa. I think Kate, as an archaeologist, would be interested in the problems the local Cherokee people have had trying to preserve this holy land.
As we were leaving Kituhwa,the The Great Smoky Mountain Train Ride passed through. Good thing they were traveling slowly... my friend and I were so absorbed by our conversation, we nearly didn't see it. The conductor warned us with a steamy hornblow to back away from the tracks. Got our attention! I took photos of the tourists waving at us as they rode by. You can see some of them taking pictures of the Kituhwa mound.
Monday morning, it was time for me to leave. I left my friend, surrounded by the misted, mystical Smoky Mountains. She thanked me for all I had done, and we hugged our goodbyes. She drove ahead of me to guide me back to the main highway, then waved at me as she pulled off onto an exit. I returned the wave and watched her car disappear among the trees, like a deer sprinting back into the forest.
As I drove down from the mountains, heading East for my own home in the Piedmont of NC, I felt a bit numb at first. Thoughts parried for my attention. An hour away from Cherokee, I was finally able to decipher what had actually happened, translating it into metaphorical language, a language I understand much easier than real life terms.
For some reason I had been called into service to help her make the move. Had she not had the knee surgery during the same week I was at the coast discovering sea clay, she would not have needed my help this week. It all happened so fast, and I felt like I was along for the ride.
I say this with a humble attitude, for I was honored to be part of her journey. This was her mountain journey, not mine. I was merely the boatman, carrying the weary, wounded traveler across a wide river so she could get to the other side to continue her sojourn.
For a brief few days, I was her traveling companion much like a servant/friend. I pondered what I had learned, what I had seen and heard, the stories she had shared with me. Truly, I felt privileged to be part of this segment of her journey to something larger than herself, and something new.
I know that her knee will heal, she will adjust to her new location, and she will make new friends. She has a dream to follow. I pray that she finds peace and joy. May God bless her and keep her safe.
We will keep in touch. We must keep in touch.
Besides, come September, there is an NCCAT seminar called "Celebrating Diversity through Art" to be held in Cullowhee... I'm signing up for it tomorrow!
*Historical facts about the Kituhwa Mound were written by Student Researcher Matt Hooley found at the Manataka American Indian Council Sacred Sites Watch: http://www.manataka.org/page1938.html







26 comments:
Aw this is truly a beautiful posting you have done here.I have so enjoyed it with a lump in my throat at the same time.I know Old Sam from J/Land would love to read this he is always talking of the Great Smoky Mountains and including pics.I wish your friend all the happiness and good luck in the world.What a lovely Museum it sounds.I love to look around places like this .Thanx for sharing this lovely story and you are an Angel for how you have helped your friend.GOD Bless you always.Take care KATH
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A compassionate adventure story is a rare treat, thanks!
Caregivingly Yours, Patrick
What a facinating few days you have had, so full of so many emotions. I am so glad that you were led to accompany your fiend and I am sure you have helped her on her way in more ways than you will ever know. What a great little museum. It is such a shame that the original peoples of many countries are marginalised when the "big white" people arrive. enjoy the rest of your week, and find time to have a rest yourself. (How long is your school holidays ?) no doubt t he weeks will fly past Love Sybil xx
So if you hadnt offered to help your friend you would have missed all this ,how wonderful ,what a lovely few days ,,good luck to your friend ..love Jan xx
I have my speculations about what led to this journey...and if I'm right, you have done a wonderful thing for a friend. Even if I'm wrong, its always a good thing to be there for a friend.
Greg
Bea, I'm sure your friend is aware of what a blessing she had in you. I can relate to what she has gone through - the pain of leaving a familiar place - friends, family. The pain of having to leave stuff behind because there is no space to take it with. I'm sure she was torn about leaving, but I'm also sure that she had something inside that quickened when she thought about her future - a time of discovery and a new start. God bless you for listening and being a servant / friend when someone needed you most. That's just like you! Love Caroline
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you were blessed to be able to help a fellow traveler on this road we walk.
I have been to Cherokee, after a week of camping in the mountains, it seemed really garish to me. I wish I had seen your shop.
I really enjoyed this entry
Love'
Marti
What a lovely few days you had...& if you hadn't decided to go, think of all you would've missed!
God Bless You,
Sugar
How lovely! You were both blessed with this time together over the weekend. Those mountians are a beautiful reminder of just how small we are in the grand scheme of things.
Enjoy the rest of your summer and have a Happy 4th of July!
Michelle
Good friends are hard to find. I know your friend was happy and blessed to have you with her.
Julie
((((((((((((((((HUGTOYOU))))))))))))))))I loved reading your entry,I bet your friend was so glad you were there for Her.That is a blessing.Have a Happy 4th.
I hope she will be happy...I loved her yard...so beautiful and peaceful! I know she was glad to have you with her.
love ya,
carlene
Bea,what a lovely entry! Thanks for being salt and light to others!! Hugs ,Shauneen
Loved this post! Thanks for alerting me to this. My mother is actually descended from the Eastern Cherokees from NC. Quite a few people are left with the impression we where located more western. Different band of the same tribe. The museum sounded like someplace I would visit if I was ever by that way. I was delighted you were aware of the amount of "junk" tourist traps there are. A lot of the more authentic objects come with the story of who made it , tribe, and listing. It's something to watch for.
Kituwah Mound I cheered when I found out the ruling and the property had been purchased to perserve the sacred site. When you wrote "I wanted to take a rock or something to remember this place but I didn't because I didn't want to disrespect the land and meaning." From my heart to yours that meant a lot to me. You won't have to worry about an object to keep this memory strong, it now lives within you. Your footprints are now part of the land you walked upon. From my spirit to yours, have a wonderful safe holiday! (Hugs) Indigo
This is such an interesting, well writting entry! You should write for a magazine. I could visualize your trip as I read it. Very good. Makes me want to visit that little museum and learn more!
Hugs, Kathy
Fascinating, Bea, simply fascinating. I was just reading Indigo's comments. I know you are carrying the reverance of the Kituwah Mound with you. I had to read the link you provided. I'm glad the sacred land is back with the rightful owners. Your friend is very lucky to be living in such a beautiful area. I think this was a journey you were destined to take. Thanks for sharing. I can feel the peace you've carried back home with you. My son and I were in the Smoky Mountains the summer before last. I wish we had stopped in NC instead of Tennessee. He is a history buff and loves to stop at non-tourist spots. We both would have love the Cherokee Heritage Museum. Chris
I hope you are having a great summer. I would love to return to the Great Smokey Mountains.
Smiles,
David
This is going to take some study!
Answering, responding, will take
stretching my clock on the eve of
getting ready to move, so let this be
preamble. Frankly I'm in ignorance of
much history that you reveal.
fascinating.
Barry
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Interesting entry, Bea, thanks for sharing.
This was such a nice entry. I'm so glad you were able to enjoy your time with your friend and help her get moved. You really learned a lot about the Cherokee nation, didn't you? I would love to visit that museum. That must have been a highlight of your trip.
Lori
Ahhh....the mountains. Certainly sounds & looks like you had a wonderful trip! ~ L
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How wonderful to read of your travels Bea. I don't know why I didn't get an alert for your entries but I hope they work from now on.
Your ability to create a mind picture with your style of writing is inimitable. I felt drawn in, as if I was sharing the journey with you.
The Heritage Museum sounds wonderful too. Wouldn't it be nice to find that all Dr Abram's 'Collections' were housed eventually in a larger building? It would be a wonderful tribute to him and the Cherokee Nation. Thanks for visiting my little journal. As a child, my friends and I made cakes, biscuits and pies from our mud puddles, so that we could sell them in 'our shop'. lol!
Jeanie
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I love the mountains and I have been to that museum. Very lovely lovely place and we were there on the 4th of July in 96, they were havinga pow wow! It was so much fun. I'm glad you enjoyed your trip and made it home safely. God bless you for helping your friend. love, Shelly
How interesting your little sojourn was! It's remarkable how what seems like just a friendly, helpful act, turns into something much more than that. Every day.. no matter what we do, can be turned into an adventure, and a learning experience. What makes it even better, is, you bring it all home with you, and in turn we get to experience what you did, through your written words.
I truly enjoyed this entry, Bea.. :)
Hugs
jackie
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I sure do miss NC after seeing these pictures. We have ETOWA mounds here and THE TRAIL OF TEARS MUSEUM. I go to POW WOWs and am trying to learn to speak CHEROKEE. Finding my family tree and finding so many Native Americans on it, I have enough to pursue my Native American Card. Dirk's going to help me. These pictures are so breath taking.
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